10 Questions to Ask Before Dating Someone

Dating seems fun especially when you think you've met the one. But how can you meet the one when you don't even know the real person behind all that facade. 🤔

You see, when you meet that new man or woman, you're not meeting the real person, you are meeting their sales representative. ☝🏽They are there to make you fall in love with the real person under the whole facade. ⚠️

Your best bet is to ask questions that'll spark a conversation. Get to know your new catch and not their sales representative. If you want some conversation starters, then this list is for you.

10 Questions to Ask Before Dating Someone

1. If you had to name your greatest motivation in life, what would it be?

Getting to know someone's greatest motivations can bring you close to them or push you farther away. Here's the thing: relationships have hit the rocks because two people are too different.

2. How important is taking space for yourself?

Have you noticed some couples are always together? They shop together, eat together and go out together because they enjoy each other's presence and some couples are hardly ever seen in public together. This is because both or at least one of the partners love their space.

3. How often are you open with your feelings?

One of the keys to a good start is honest communication between two people in a relationship. So you need to know if your potential boyfriend or girlfriend is open with their feelings.

4. How often do you like to have sex?

Too many people have broken up with their partners because they like sex or they don't like it at all. You just have to know what you're getting into when it comes to sex so you're not disappointed.

5. How do you prefer to communicate?

It's good to know what kind of person you're going to be dating. Some people don't like calling although compromises happen in relationships the truth is that over time, you'll realize the kind of person you're dating. So why not ask them now that your relationship is fresh?

6. What’s your love language?

If you don't know your partner's love language then there's a possibility it won't last. Here's why: if your partner's love language is quality and you keep buying them gifts while spending most of your time with friends then your relationship is bound to fail. In your head, you're wondering why your girlfriend doesn't seem excited even when you buy her things and it's making you lash out and your girlfriend is sitting in her house wondering if you're cheating on her.

7. What’s your dream job?

Do you want to be a librarian when you grow up? A doctor? An influencer?

8. What object can’t you live without?

Is it your laptop? Your guitar? Your Pokemon cards?

9. What piece of advice would you give your younger self?

Probably not to get that haircut. You know the one.

10. Do you ever act out of spite?

How two people work through conflict is very important.